Today’s burning question: Do women cheat more than men, or do they simply cheat better? Let’s unravel the complexities of this age-old debate.

First, what is cheating, because everyone has their own definitions. Cheating for me is when a person that is in a monogamous and/or exclusive relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner’s consent. Basically, if you must hide it from me, it’s cheating.

Women and men cheat equally; however, men get caught more. Women cheat smarter, better. they cheat with men who they know will not speak on their intimacy. Men think and cheat with their genitals. Due to them wanting something specific and not setting clear boundaries, they cheat with women who openly discuss their sexual lives, hence why when you try to break up with her, she’s going to tell your girlfriend. Now, not all women cheat and not all men cheat, but cheating occurs. You can’t cheat with just anyone. Some men can cheat without emotion and if you’re that man, you shouldn’t cheat with a woman with emotion. If a woman cheats, she usually has a tie or connection with the man that she’s cheating with. Listen girl, bad move. Cheat without ties so there can be no connection back to you. Now this isn’t a how-to guide or what to do, it’s just truth.

Now, I’m a firm believer that if you need to cheat, you need to move on. No use in hurting someone because of your own issues. And if you’re not getting what you desire out the relationship, that should be even more reason for you to leave.

Let me know your thoughts about the topic!